I had my first experience when I was in my 20's and loved it, but nothing since then. "Sex contains all, Bodies, Souls, meanings, proofs, purities, delicacies, results, promulgations, gs, commands, health, pride, the maternal mystery, the seminal milk; All hopes, benefactions, bestowals, All the passions, loves, beauties, delights of the earth, All the governments, judges, gods, follow'd pers of the earth, These are contain'd in sex, as parts of itself, and justifications of itself.". Male alternatives to masturbation. My list if wants and desires is ever mounting and my list if hard no is pretty damn short.