Just having someone to share chat with that you might not want to share with your partner, flirt, talk dirty to, etc. Nude girl at resort. I am NOT interested in a relationship, and don't wish that to change, so anything must be discrete. Ideally I want someone who isn't a regular smoker or drinker. If I have any regrets, they are not because of what I have done, but because of what I have NOT done.